I like your " The Chinese Horoscope" site, which is more or less about 90 % correct to predict each memberr of my family's character. If your are my son's( yauman) gf, you should look in more details on the date of 1St Sept .As you said, " I ' m in France , my heart is in ' Sweet Potato Country' ". I fully understand your emotional feeling as it happened to me, I joined my parent in UK when I was 16 year old. I was dumped in a boaring school for a couple of years. I felt so miserable and homesick. I cried without tears. None one would help me at all.I stood up against all the odd until I had finished my secondary education. Life is just like a roller coaster, you learn and gain the experince as the day pass by. DAN DAN, I know u can co it. You have the guts and strong personal character.EVEN IF NO FAIRY-TAIL WORLD, TO LAY DOWN THE BURDEN OF ACHIEVING IT. WWish you very success in all aspects. YAU'S DAD